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Review – Transforming Church In Rural America

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I must say, when I first saw Shannon O’Dell’s book Transforming Church In Rural America, I was a bit apprehensive. Aside from the fact that the font used on the word “rural” is in is a little too close to Bleeding Cowboys (which has surpassed Papyrus as the most overused font ever), the subtitle just seemed too…… kitschy. But, as the saying goes, “Never judge a book by it’s cover.”

That all being said, Transforming Church In Rural America is a much needed book. There’s plenty of books, DVD’s, podcasts and resources directed at church planters and pastors of established churches, advising them on everything from church growth to doctrine to regeneration to inspiration and even transformation, with one catch – they’re either created by pastors in large metro areas or they’re directed at pastors in large metro areas. And while those books and resources are needed, not everyone is called to a metro area. The problem is, there’s nothing sexy about rural America. Even in the secular workplace, no one dreams of one day transferring to a rural town. They want to get as far away from the country as they can, not move to it. And so, because of that mindset (which O’Dell addresses), there are very few resources for rural pastors and churches. Onto the review.

I don’t want to give away too much, because the book really is worth reading if you pastor or serve in a church that has turned tradition into doctrine, regardless of it’s location. So just a few quick pros and cons, as well as a few notes. First off, the fact this book was written is a good thing, regardless of my feelings about the title and cover design. Also, it’s a well written, easy to read book. It flows well. Much of that has to do with the fact that O’Dell is writing out of his own personal experiences as a pastor of a rural church in Arkansas. He isn’t writing about observations he made as a church consultant, or as a friend of a pastor or anything else. He experienced the events he writes of first hand. So, as the reader, you share in the church’s struggles as well as celebrate in their wins. Second, he gives a lot of good, practical, Biblical advice on leading a church when it comes to things such as mission, vision, doctrine, church government and church discipline, which sadly, too many pastors and churches don’t have a clue about. Thirdly, he is up front with readers concerning the realities of pastoring a church built on rules and traditions – it can be downright painful. Very little support from friends in large ministries (why would you want to go there?), the backlash to expect when you attempt to change ANYTHING and the fact that people will leave. Most rural churches, and generally speaking, most small churches, are run by a handful of families who have been tied to that church for decades. They’ve seen pastors come and go, they’re viewed as the leaders in the church, they’re respected in the community and they aren’t about to relinquish one iota of control. There are stories relating to these realities sprinkled throughout, but chapter 5 (Attitude: Sacred Cows and Slaughtering the Status Quo) is priceless. Again, O’Dell shows us that he isn’t just sharing observations – he is that pastor that has to stand in the same Walmart checkout line as the former church member who left his church because the elders decided to remove the pews in favor of stackable seating. He can relate because he’s been there.

There were only two downsides, in my opinion. For one, the book does get a little repetitive at times. There were things I would read in one chapter that, just a chapter or two later it seemed like I was rereading what I’d read earlier. The other downside is that O’Dell does push attendance growth a little harder than I would like at times. Not that growing your church’s attendance is bad – quite the opposite. Every person represents a soul. And O’Dell does write a bit about how growth simply for numbers sake is bad, and that what we should be focusing on is growing the congregants in their knowledge of the Gospel. But there were times where it felt like he was pushing the idea of growing your existing members in the knowledge and understanding of the gospel not so they would become more like Jesus, but so they would grow your numbers via word of mouth. Again, that’s the kind of growth a pastor should want, but there were times where it came across like “right practice, wrong motive”.

Finally, there is one feeling I get from Transforming Church In Rural America that for me isn’t a con, but it could be for some. I’ve read it before. Not literally, but there are countless books on planting missional churches, transforming dying churches, etc., and they all share similar ideas and stories. That doesn’t make them any less authentic, just similar. I know some will see this as a downer (hence my thoughts on the title), but what it tells me is that for every church that “gets it”, theres another dozen that don’t. I believe we’re going to see more and more books that deal with transforming the local church until the majority “get it”. So I recommend reading Transforming Church In Rural America. Even if you’re in a great church – you could still learn something.

To sum it all up, here is what may be my favorite line from the book:

A leader cannot authentically lead someone if he is not legitimately headed in that direction himself.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I am a member of Thomas Nelson’s Book Review Bloggers program BookSneeze, and as such, was provided with a free copy of the aforementioned book in exchange for reviewing it on this website. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Multisite: Yea or Nay?

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Those who know me know I follow more than a few pastors whose churches are multi-site; Mark Driscoll, Andy Stanley and Craig Groeschel just to name a few. For those wondering what a multi-site church is, the easiest way to explain it is that it’s a church that meets in multiple locations. I say “easiest way…” because different churches have different models. Some, like Mars Hill, have a “main” campus where the pastor is live and the other campuses are video venues. Those models still operate like a normal church in that they have their own staff, volunteers, worship leaders, etc., but when the preaching portion starts, it’s usually (but not always) via video. I’ve had the chance to visit a church like this on multiple occasions and can honestly say there really wasn’t much difference between seeing the pastor in person vs. seeing him on a giant screen. However, other churches use a model where they schedule the service times so that the pastor can be at each campus, in person.

In the video below, Mark Dever, Mark Driscoll and James MacDonald discuss multi-site churches and church planting. Sadly, they were limited to ten minutes.

One interesting statistic from the video: Mark Driscoll states that at Mars Hill, they’ve found that their video venues have a higher percentage of giving, small group participation, membership and service than the venue where Mark preaches live each Sunday. I’ve heard similar statistics from other multi-site pastors as well. Just something to think about.

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Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people. For we ourselves were once foolish, disobedient, led astray, slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in malice and envy, hated by others and hating one another. But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life. The saying is trustworthy, and I want you to insist on these things, so that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works. These things are excellent and profitable for people. But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, dissensions, and quarrels about the law, for they are unprofitable and worthless. As for a person who stirs up division, after warning him once and then twice, have nothing more to do with him, knowing that such a person is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned.

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When reading this passage earlier, two images came to mind. I couldn’t decide which one represented this passage the best (or if they represent the full passage at all), so I’m sharing both. One is a pair of dirty hands, the other is the iconic NYC coffee cup.

What’s Next for Francis Chan?

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If you’re a fan of Francis Chan, you most likely know that he announced earlier in the spring he would be stepping down as lead pastor of Cornerstone Church in Simi Valley, CA in order to start a new church in Los Angeles, CA. Obviously, there are many people who have reacted by asking, “Are you insane?”. The video below has been floating around on the web for about a week now, and while I was planning on including it in Sunday’s se7en post, I figured I might as well throw it in as it’s own post as well.

So here goes – pastors Mark Driscoll and Joshua Harris, close friends of Chan’s, asking him the tough questions that many of us have probably wanted to ask. This is a perfect case of “iron sharpening iron”.

One More Thing……

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If you’ve ever seen a Steve Jobs keynote, you know he’s famous for his, “One more thing…” line. It’s usually reserved for the end of the presentation, when he unveils Apple’s latest game-changer.

In my case, it’s when I publish a blog post and then a little while later (could be thirty minutes, could be a few hours) I think of something that would’ve fit perfectly.

But it’s too late to go back and edit the original post, because several people have already read it and may not realize I’ve updated it. So here’s my one more thing.

Yesterday I wrote about pastors and the pedestals we put them on, and specifically Rick Warren and a statement he tweeted. If you haven’t read that post yet, go ahead and do yourself a favor and click on over. Don’t worry – this post will still be here when you’re finished.

Anyways, a few hours after publishing that post, it dawned on me I’d forgotten a rather interesting subject. A subject that fits right in with yesterday’s post.

Pastoral Distance.

Apparently, many moons ago someone thought that if a pastor shared too much of his personal life, his parishioners would lose respect in him and no longer submit to his pastoral authority, so they came up with the idea of pastoral distance (AKA ministerial distance, ministerial gap, pastoral gap). Here’s how it works: you, as a pastor, must do everything possible to prevent your congregation from losing respect for you, because if your congregation no longer respects you, how could you speak into their lives, instruct them, etc.? So, the best way to avoid all this is to distance yourself from your congregation by doing two things:

  • When preaching/teaching, don’t use negative personal examples (i.e. past or current struggles). You must appear as some sort of super-Christian, otherwise, you will lose credibility with your parishioners.
  • Don’t allow parishioners to get too close, or get to know you too well, otherwise they will see your flaws and lose respect for you.

According to several pastors I’ve talked to (across several denominations), this idea is not only encouraged, it is taught at several denominationally sponsored colleges and seminaries.

Because surely no one wants to hear that their pastor has a past or that he has struggles of his own!

Give me a break!

Look, if your testimony is that God put you in a family that raised you properly, which led to you never going through “major” sins and the worst thing you’ve ever done is forget to read your Bible for a few days, that’s GREAT and YOU SHOULD SHARE IT to show people that if you trust God, he will protect you from making bad decisions and screwing up your life!!

BUT – if you do have a past, or if you are currently struggling with something (which isn’t always sinful), USE THOSE EXPERIENCES IN YOUR MINISTRY!! Don’t hide them – embrace the fact that God has delivered you from something.

Pastors & Pedestals

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So yesterday, Rick Warren (pastor of Saddleback Church and author of several bestselling books including The Purpose Driven Life) rocked the Twitterverse with the following tweet:

I challenge any church in America to match the spiritual maturity, godliness & commitment of any 500 members of Saddleback.

Okay, so “rocked” may not have been the best word. Sure, there’s a few disgruntled tweeters and bloggers who’ve latched onto this and there’s those who’ve replied to Warren in a respectful, sometimes even humorous, way, but for the most part, it either went by unnoticed, or people just don’t care.

It also doesn’t hurt that Rick Warren removed the offending tweet. He has since replaced it with……

For 30 yrs our plan was to turn spectators into participators,consumers to contributors,an audience into an army.It worked!

Which leads me to think his original tweet was a touche of sorts.

I.E., Google “Rick Warren” and see what you get.

Sure, there’s plenty of sites that are harmless, but there’s also a plethora of sites demonizing Warren, Saddleback, his books, etc. On top of that are all the books and magazine articles that have been written in opposition to Warren and his books and ministries. And even if the good outweighs the bad by ten-to-one, it always seems as if the bad is more prevalent because they’re usually the loudest.

I’ll be blunt – when you add it all up, I wouldn’t have made it thirty years without saying something publicly.

I can see it now; maybe Rick Googled his own name (big mistake if you’re famous) or maybe he was confronted at lunch by a KJV-only fundamentalist. Whatever the situation was, I’m not justifying Warren’s tweet. I’m simply stating I can understand. When someone says or writes something bad about you, especially when that someone claims to be in your family (Christian), it hurts. Which brings me to two points:

  1. Christians (especially Western Christians) are some of the ugliest people in the world. As Gandhi once said, “I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.”
  2. Questioning Rick Warren on his tweet is one thing, but I saw people BASHING him over that tweet – people who have Rick Warren quotes and retweets in their Twitter timelines. It seems that we put pastors on pedestals not because we think they deserve a place of honor, but so we can tear them down the first chance we get.

Why?

Where in the Bible does it say that pastors are called to a higher standard of living? James 3:1 talks about teaching, but it doesn’t say anything about living. Matthew 5:48 and 1 Peter 1:15 state that holiness is the standard for ALL Christians, not just those called to teach. Yet all too often we Christians think we can say whatever we want with no thought as to who we might offend, because of our anonymity and a “I’m not perfect” attitude.

We allow space for repentance in our own lives, but not in the lives of our pastors.

Why not?

Jefferson, the Bible and Independence Day

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I saw the following quote on a church sign today:

The Bible is the foundation of liberty.

Not bad, assuming you’re a Christian.

Only one problem – the quote was attributed to Thomas Jefferson.

You know, our third president.

Now, I believe Jefferson was one of the greatest presidents in U.S. history, and there are many good quotes attributed to him; but considering he was a deist and even removed portions of the Bible with which he did not agree, how am I supposed to take the above quote seriously?

Oh, wait, that type of thinking screws up the whole God and country sermon they were planning, doesn’t it?

Seriously – if that’s the direction you’re wanting to go, there’s better quotes to use.

Sunday’s Coming

A rather humorous look at trends in the church, thanks to the church many would call a trendsetter, North Point Community Church. This was played earlier this week at their annual Drive Conference. I think the message here is quit copying others and do what God told you to do.

“Sunday’s Coming” Movie Trailer from North Point Media on Vimeo.

John Piper’s Upcoming Leave

I was checking Facebook this afternoon and noticed a link that Scott Thomas (Acts 29 director) posted with the caption,

John Piper is taking 8 months off to examine his ministry, marriage and family. Pray for Pastor John.

Now, I don’t know about you, but the first thought that came to mind (God forgive me) was moral failure.

Thankfully, I was wrong.

After reading the entire blog post from Pastor John, I’m actually speechless. Here’s an excerpt:

I asked the elders to consider this leave because of a growing sense that my soul, my marriage, my family, and my ministry-pattern need a reality check from the Holy Spirit. On the one hand, I love my Lord, my wife, my five children and their families first and foremost; and I love my work of preaching and writing and leading Bethlehem. I hope the Lord gives me at least five more years as the pastor for preaching and vision at Bethlehem.

But on the other hand, I see several species of pride in my soul that, while they may not rise to the level of disqualifying me for ministry, grieve me, and have taken a toll on my relationship with Noël and others who are dear to me. How do I apologize to you, not for a specific deed, but for ongoing character flaws, and their effects on everybody? I’ll say it now, and no doubt will say it again, I’m sorry. Since I don’t have just one deed to point to, I simply ask for a spirit of forgiveness; and I give you as much assurance as I can that I am not making peace, but war, with my own sins.

By John Piper. © Desiring God. Website: desiringGod.org

Wow.

I don’t always agree with Piper’s teachings, but those differences are with secondary issues. I pray God raises up more pastors and leaders like John Piper. Leaders who aren’t ashamed to admit they are human and as such have flaws that they allow God to reveal to them and then work out of them.

Click here to read the full article.

Hate = Sin

This is something that’s been gnawing at me for awhile.

Years in fact.

But seeing how violent some of the Obamacare protestors have become, I feel like I have to say (or write) something.

Hate for your fellow man or woman = SIN.

That being said, I realize that sinners sin (seeing that “sin” is the root word of “sinner”). But Christians are called to love.

Ed Young once said,

We don’t confuse acceptance with approval.

Acceptance, NOT approval.

I mean, that’s what Jesus did, right?

He met sinners where they were at; not after they had changed or “cleaned up” or “gotten right with God”, but where they were at. (Mark 2:16 & 17, Luke 5:27-32)

He accepted them for who they were, but He didn’t approve of their lifestyle.

Nor did he condemn them for their lifestyle. He knew how to cut to the heart of the matter without judgment or condemnation. (John 4:1-42, John 8:2-11)

In fact, the only times we see him being judgmental in the gospels are in His encounters with wayward religious leaders. (Matthew 15:1-3, Matthew 23:13-39)

So, if Jesus was able to show love and accept those around Him, even when they differed in opinion, lifestyle, choices, beliefs, etc., why can’t we?

Earlier today I tweeted the following;

Hatred = sin. God created equally so why hate? Black/white, conservative/liberal, gay/straight, Mac/PC, etc. (Matthew 5:21-22)

Take, for example, conservatives, liberals and this past weekend’s healthcare vote.

Is it wrong to voice your opinion? No.

Is it wrong to protest peacefully? No.

But when you start dragging people through the mud, when you make derogatory jokes about those who you’ll “end up buying insurance for”, when you claim Obama is the anti-Christ and the end of the world is at hand, are you showing Jesus through those actions?

Does anyone reading this really believe God was surprised by how the vote turned out?

I’m not telling anyone to stop making their opinions known, or to take a back seat. Ignorance is not bliss.

But if you call yourself a Christian, remember who you represent.

If you’ve got something to say, say it in love. (1 John 4:20-21)

Another example – homosexuality.

I don’t care what you believe concerning homosexuality and sin. That’s another post for another day.

But reread 1 John 4:20-21 real quick.

Know any gays or lesbians?

Are you showing them love, or do you love to make fun and belittle them?

I could go on; racism, classism, education, etc., but you get the point.

There’s a song on the latest North Point CD called “Everything” which pretty much sums up my point in the first verse.

God in my living
There in my breathing
God in my waking
God in my sleeping
God in my resting
There in my working
God in my thinking
God in my speaking

Be my everything (4x)

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